The Power of Being Real
10 Dec, 2024
This Christmas, let’s take a moment to reflect on something that can bring us peace and healing: authenticity. What does it mean to be authentic? It simply means being true to yourself. When we are real, we stop pretending to be something we are not, and that helps us heal from within.
In a world of expectations, it is easy to forget who we truly are. We try to fit in, to be what others want us to be, but deep inside, we may feel lost. Being authentic is like a pure flower that grows naturally without trying too hard. When we allow ourselves to be real, we begin to heal.
It is like drinking pure water. It cleanses us. When we are honest with ourselves, we start to feel lighter. We stop hiding behind masks, and we feel more at peace. This peace comes from accepting ourselves exactly as we are. There is no need to pretend to be someone else.
When we are true to ourselves, we heal from the pain of trying to be perfect. We let go of the weight of pleasing others and start living for ourselves. This is where true happiness comes from. It is not always easy, but it is the only source of true joy.
Authenticity gives us strength and the courage to speak our truth, even when it is hard. When we stand up for who we are, we send out a message of self-love. And when we love ourselves, we can love others better, too.
When we show our true selves, we give others the permission to do the same. Imagine a world where everyone could be themselves, without fear of judgment. This world would be full of kindness, peace, and healing. Authenticity spreads, just like a healing light, touching everyone around us.
Let me tell you about Lily, a kind woman who lived in a small village. She was neither rich nor famous, but she was known for being real. She never pretended to be someone she wasn’t. People admired her for her kindness and honesty.
One cold winter, a traveller came to the village. He had been carrying a heavy burden in his heart for many years. He had tried to live up to the expectations of others, but it had only made him weary and sad. When he met Lily, he felt safe enough to open up about his struggles.
Lily listened to him with compassion. She didn’t advise or try to fix his problems. Instead, she simply said, “The key to peace is being true to yourself. When you stop pretending, you will find the peace you are looking for.”
The traveller left Lily’s home that day with a new sense of hope. He understood that to heal; he needed to be authentic; to stop trying to be someone else.
Being authentic is also a way of loving ourselves. It means accepting our flaws and being okay with who we are. Self-love comes when we stop comparing ourselves to others and start appreciating who we truly are. It’s okay to be imperfect and to make mistakes. When we are real, we learn to love ourselves more.
This Christmas, let’s give ourselves the gift of authenticity. Let’s stop pretending to be what others want us to be. Instead, let’s embrace who we are with all our strengths and weaknesses. When we do this, we heal.
A Christmas Message
Christmas is a time for joy and love, but also a time for reflection. This year, let’s reflect on authenticity. Are we being true to ourselves or we are just hiding behind masks?
This Christmas, let’s remember that authenticity is the greatest gift we can give to ourselves and the world. When we live authentically, we free ourselves from the pressure of perfectionism. We create space for peace, joy, and love.
“Wherever you stand, be the soul of that place.” Let us be real in every moment wherever we are. The world will be a better place when we embrace our true selves. When we do, we create a ripple effect of love, peace, and healing that touches everyone around us.
So, this Christmas, let’s celebrate being real. Let’s be true to ourselves and let’s share that truth with the world.
Merry Christmas, and may your heart be filled with peace and joy as you embrace who you truly are this holiday season.
19 Years | Sri Lanka Creative Writer | Short Story Writer Interested in Biology, Physics, and Chemistry "Many see the meadow, few see the flowers." I am a 19-year-old creative writer from Sri Lanka, passionate about short stories that explore unique perspectives. I believe in uncovering beauty in the ordinary, and through my writing, I aim to show that extraordinary things can be found in the simplest of moments. Along with writing, I am deeply interested in the fields of biology, physics, and chemistry, which fuel my curiosity about the world around me.